Thinking of Don talking to a guy about his marriage, I have found that it is tricky to address the issue with wives who are in a hierarchical marriage because it¡Çs like suggesting they ¡Ædisobey¡Ç their husbands. It can be seen as driving a wedge between them when you just talk to the wife about her husband¡Çs (supposed) oppressive manner.
Now jerking the steering wheel (again) to a new premise that I am not allowed to attack you for attacking him because¡ÄStephanie Cutter hinted he is out of touch for being a spoiled brat rich guy?